Do your older kids have a Facebook or Twitter account? The current generation is definitely more open about sharing what's on their mind, what they are doing, etc. But not only the younger generation, I know for myself I have had to exercise great restraint in not sharing an opinion or comment that could be misinterpreted or hurtful.
My dad is a quiet man by nature, but also very intelligent. I once asked him why he was so quiet and didn't share more of his knowledge. His response surprised me and has stuck with me... he said that there is nothing new under the sun (taken from Ecclesiastes 1:9). Some may say, that's a negative view of life, but I understand his comment. He was in essence saying you don't have to be the one that is constantly drawing attention to yourself, putting your opinions and ideas "out there". I appreciate his words of wisdom and it's something we have to remind our kids about too.
Philippians 4:8 says,
"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things."Remind your kids to be careful about what they say in a text, post or tweet... some postings have the potential to haunt them for the rest of their life. Take for instance this women who in a moment of silliness completely altered her life.
And please don't misunderstand me... I am in no way against social media sights for teens, we just need to remind and monitor them so that they use them in a way that is honoring and pleasing to their Heavenly Father. One rule of thumb I've heard is this... If you can't say it to someone's face than you shouldn't text, post or tweet it.
And just a reminder... for the protection of children, 13 years of age is the requirement to have a Facebook account.
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